If you want to get closer to someone, tell them happy stories rather than sad ones

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Telling people happy stories rather than sad ones can increase feelings of closeness between speakers and listeners, according to international research, which found that a happy story synchronizes brain activity between speaker and listener more than a sad story. In the study, one participant — the speaker — watched happy, sad, and neutral videos and recorded themselves explaining the contents of the videos. Participants — the listeners — listened to the narration and rated how close they felt to the speaker afterwards. Both the speaker and the listeners completed their tasks while researchers measured their brain activity with EEG. Sharing happy stories produced better recall in the listeners, as well as higher ratings of interpersonal closeness. The increased closeness was linked to increased synchrony between the brain activity of the speaker and listener.

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From: Society for Neuroscience

Happy Stories Synch Brain Activity More Than Sad Stories

Sharing a happy story increases feelings of closeness, synchronizes brain activity between speaker and listener

Successful storytelling can synchronize brain activity between the speaker and listener, but not all stories are created equal. Sharing happy stories increases feelings of closeness and brain synchrony more than sad stories, according to new research published in eNeuro.

Researchers from East China Normal University compared how emotional stories impact interpersonal connection and communication. In the study, one participant — the speaker — watched happy, sad, and neutral videos and recorded themselves explaining the contents of the videos. Participants — the listeners — listened to the narration and rated how close they felt to the speaker afterward. Both the speaker and the listeners completed their tasks while researchers measured their brain activity with EEG.

Sharing happy stories produced better recall in the listeners, as well as higher ratings of interpersonal closeness. The increased closeness was linked to increased synchrony between the brain activity of the speaker and listener, particularly in the frontal and left temporoparietal cortices. These regions are involved in emotional processing and theory of mind, respectively. Brain synchrony could become a measure of successful connection and communication.

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